Anjoli Aisenbrey Counseling — Attachment-Based, Nervous-System-Focused Care

Attachment-Based · Nervous-System-Focused Care

Meaningful change
that moves beyond insight.

Attachment-Based Psychotherapy and EMDR for High-Functioning Adults

Washington · Nevada · Maryland · Maine · Telehealth

You may look capable on the outside, but internally feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in patterns that don't seem to shift. I offer trauma-informed, attachment-based therapy for high-functioning adults who want meaningful change.

What we work on together

The kind of change you're looking for.

Whether you're navigating emotional overwhelm, relational patterns, or unresolved experiences, the work goes beneath the surface — where lasting shifts actually happen.

i.

Emotion Regulation & Nervous System Balance

If you feel stuck in cycles of stress, overthinking, or emotional overwhelm, therapy can help you build regulation, quiet internal chaos, and respond with more steadiness and clarity.

ii.

Relational Clarity & Security

If relationships leave you feeling anxious, disconnected, or unsure of yourself, we can work to strengthen boundaries, increase self-awareness, and help you relate with more clarity and security.

iii.

Self-Trust, Identity & Confidence

If you feel disconnected from yourself or unsure of your direction, therapy can help you rebuild self-trust, clarify what matters to you, and feel more grounded in who you are.

iv.

Healing the Past, Expanding the Present

Old experiences and unresolved patterns can continue to shape how you think, feel, and relate. Therapy helps process what is still carrying weight so you can respond from the present, not from survival.

For thoughtful, high-functioning adults

Trauma-informed therapy that goes beneath the surface.

You may be insightful, capable, and used to holding it all together — yet still feel overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, disconnected, or stuck in the same patterns. Therapy can help you understand what's driving those patterns and create change that moves beyond insight into lived, embodied experience.

Services

Two paths into the same depth of work.

Whether you're coming on your own or with a partner, the foundation is the same — attachment-informed, nervous-system-aware, and built around real change.

For individuals

Individual Therapy

For individuals who feel capable on the outside but internally overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected. This work focuses on understanding patterns, building regulation, and creating meaningful, lasting change.

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For couples

Couples Counseling

For couples who feel stuck in recurring patterns, disconnection, or unresolved conflict and want to rebuild clarity, trust, and emotional safety.

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Anjoli Aisenbrey, LICSW
Meet your therapist

Anjoli Aisenbrey, LICSW

Licensed · EMDR Trained · Gottman Level 1

I'm Anjoli — a licensed therapist specializing in trauma-informed work with individuals and couples seeking meaningful, lasting change. My approach is grounded, relational, and insight-oriented, helping clients understand patterns, regulate their nervous systems, and move through life with greater clarity and self-trust.

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How to get started

Three steps into the work.

Beginning therapy doesn't have to feel daunting. Here's what to expect, from first conversation to ongoing sessions.

01
Step One

Brief Consultation

We'll start with a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation to talk through what's bringing you in, answer any questions, and see whether this feels like a good fit.

02
Step Two

Thoughtful Plan for the Work

If we decide to move forward, we'll clarify your goals and begin shaping a therapy process that fits your needs — whether you're seeking individual therapy, couples work, or EMDR.

03
Step Three

Begin Therapy

From there, we begin the work of understanding patterns, building insight, and creating meaningful change with greater clarity, support, and intention.

When you're ready

Let's talk about what's
bringing you here.

A 15-minute complimentary consult is the first step. No pressure, no commitment — just space to talk through what you're navigating and see if working together feels right.

Request a Consultation

Or reach out: anjoli@anjolicounselingservices.com · (253) 256-3010